Monday, 5 December 2011

When I Hate to Remember

Someone asked me today about my relationship with my boyfriend, who is now my ex. I gladly admitted that I am single, and I told that someone that I had enough of him.

I hate the fact that I can't really get rid of him for good yet because I'm still using the same Maxis number, and I really need a new phone number real soon so that I can sort of start a new chapter in my life.

It doesn't help that I still remember when his birthday is, which is on 10 December. It doesn't help that we share the same birthday month either, and our anniversary falls in the same month. 

I've found out that he has changed his email password, although I'm not sure if he has changed his Facebook password as well. I've removed him from my Facebook friends list, so if you know me personally and you have him on your friends list, I'd suggest you to remove him as well. I'm not trying to get you to not befriend him, but if you knew him through me, wouldn't it be awkward that you are still friends with him after he dumped me?

Anyway, all these rants about relationship gone wrong is boring me. I just hope none of his family or friends will read this post, or my blog for that matter.

Update: I know that his family has read this post. I know that this post is being circulated among his family, on Facebook and in emails. Yup, don't ever assume that I wouldn't find out.


  1. oh dear.. don't worry life's goes on. u got us here <3 it will takes time.

  2. Hi Carol, long time no see! I'm okay with this break-up, although I don't think we can be friends anymore. Oh well, life goes on, like you said. :)

  3. oh yeah... you have used him enough and you are not an angel so dun judge.. pk

  4. I am glad for him to leave you cause you are just a lump of butchers lard

  5. you are nothing as compared to him... you are just a gold digger
    you have used all his money to finance your craft and now you say like that about him.

    1. You obviously don't know the whole story so shut the f*ck up. And have some balls to leave your name next time.

  6. Hi Unknown, I don't know who you are but I can guess. Please keep your filthy comments to yourself. Thank you!

  7. People only see what they want to see and hear what they want to hear. If family is backing him up, it's understandable for them to be angry although harsh words are so uncalled for. Seriously? What are they? 10? Hatred is ugly and that's what they are.

    It was a partnership and relationship for a long time, and although they want to think you were using him, what about all the times when he used you? Think he never has? Come on.

    Whatever it is, this will only make you stronger, as cliched as that statement is. But it will. I'm just happy that you're happy now and no longer have to sacrifice your happiness trying to fix something so broken. It just ran it's course and now is the time to move on.

    Remember that your friends and family have your back and they love you, unconditionally.

  8. Hi Shem, thanks so much! I am happy with my life now. I just wish they'd be happy for me too. Oh well, can't please everyone, and it's easier to hold grudge than to forgive, right? :)


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